Keep Building Your Leverage

Life isn’t about what you deserve; it’s about what you can negotiate. While some have to work hard to build leverage, others are handed a golden spoon from the very start. But that shouldn’t stop you from building your own leverage, creating your own opportunities, and negotiating your way toward the life you want. Your starting point may not be equal but it doesn’t have to determine where you finish.

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